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DJ your wedding with an ipod

So the fiance and I cannot imagine spending upwards of $500 on a DJ for our wedding when we have tons of perfectly good music on our computers. And the cross-fade feature... Genius!

I'm a little bit nervous about leaving our dancing fates up to the iTunes gods, but has some great tips on how to make a DJ-less wedding work for you.

  1. Amplification matters. If I had to pick one thing that makes the difference between a successful ipod dance party, and one that falls flat, it would be this. You need your music to be loud. We paid roughly $300 to rent a professional amplification system that we could run with our computer, and it was worth every penny. Weddings I've been to where the music wasn't quite loud enough, well, I never lost myself in the music. And that's what you need.
  2. Cross-fade, cross-fade, cross-fade. You can set up your itunes playlist to do this, and you should. Just like dance parties don't like quiet music, they don't like dead air. Also, if the song is endless (I'm looking at you Michael Jackson) feel free to cut out the last 8 minutes of vamping.
  3. Play music people know. I might be the only wedding blogger in the history of time that has ever admitted this, but David and I are *not* music snobs. David's tastes run a bit towards more classic stuff, whether it's jazz or rock. As for me, when it comes to the dance floor, I'm not above Beyonce. And love to dance to some Justin Timberlake, and I'm not even ashamed of that. So our playlist was a mix of Tina Turner, Sir-Mix-Alot, Nina Simone, the Black Eyed Peas, The Beatles, Lauren Hill, Frank Sinatra, House of Pain, and yes, Dolly Parton. And people stayed on the dance floor. You may have much better taste in music than I do. You may listen to bands that don't even exist yet. But if you load up your playlist with tons of songs people don't know at all, you're going to send up with a rousing bar scene, but probably not with a packed dance floor.
  4. Play a mix of music for all ages. Yeah, you and I might like Arrested Development, but I'm pretty sure your granny likes Billie Holiday singing the standards, so mix it up.
  5. Think about the flow of your play-list. Cate of Project Subrosa made me think about this pre-wedding, with her talk of building it up, and easing it down, building it up higher, dropping it down, and then building it up into a frenzy right at the end. She was 100% right.
  6. Have a music guard. Guests don't get to adjust the playlist, no, no, no. Make someone your music bouncer, and make them tough.
  7. That said, don't be afraid to screw with your own playlist mid-stream. YOU can play with the playlist during the wedding. We had more music than we needed, so there were times when we skipped further down the list. We also got to a point in the afternoon where no one over 30 was dancing. You know what I said about mixing it up? Yeah. If you don't dance, we don't play Frank Sinatra. At that point in the day we skipped straight to the hip-hop set, and people sweat through their shirts. And let me just cut off the people who say, "See? If you DJ your wedding you have to WORK at your wedding!" We spend about as much time on our playlist as we would have spent chatting to the DJ about requests or timing. We knew our playlist backwards and forwards, and could adjust it with a flick of our fingers.
  8. And finally, don't be afraid to pick a few emotional and obscure favorites. We ended our day with this medley Sam Cooke, and that was when I finally let go, tears streaming down my cheeks.

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There's nothing wrong with bringing out the iPod for the wedding after party - In fact, I was just at a wedding that HIRED a deejay and the bride was so displeased (or possibly just drunk) midway, that she brought out her iPod and started playing old skool favs like Sir-Mix-Alot and EnVogue. It was a total blast. Anyhow, thanks for the tips! I'll have to forward this World to my friend who is getting married.

There are so many articles out there about the disasters of ipod weddings. I think as long as you are organized about it, and plan the transitions between songs, it should be fine.
I will be giving my playlist a test run by inviting friends over for a dance party. Also, I am recruiting a DJ friend of mine to help me plan and mix the songs accordingly.
With an iPod wedding you can play your favorite songs and are not at the mercy of a DJ.
No electric slide for me!

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